It has been a long time coming. The last public holiday was back in June! The weather forecast was not promising but it’s been better than expected.
On Saturday I headed into town to get a new tyre for a warrant of fitness for the car, due in two weeks. I’m also due to drive to Tauranga so wanted the tyres to be good. My usual tyre man wasn’t open so I went to Tony’s Tyre Service. One can never buy just one tyre there. The salesmen there are very good at selling you more so you end up purchasing two tyres, wheel alignment and wheel balancing and having to wait two hours. I walked into town and looked around the shops, not really wanting to buy anything. I’m not ready for summer clothes shopping (I have to mentally prepare) and anything I did want, naturally I couldn’t find. I felt I might get some new walking shoes but found nothing and couldn’t remember where Rebel Sport had moved to. Walking back via the library I bumped into a colleague outside a material shop. She said the shop was closing in January, so I might think about sewing myself a summer dress instead of having to find something in the shops. We had a coffee together and I introduced her to the French café by the library.
The car was ready when I got there, so I drove home and continued with my plans, which was to mow the lawn and weed the garden. I’d bought more petrol for the lawnmower on the way back (and also checked what postage was for an item to sell on TradeMe).
Lawn mowed, I weeded two beds and then gave up, leaving two more beds at the back, one of them chocka with grass. I emptied two large outdoor pots of dead plants and hauled them out the back to wash. They were heavy. They were amongst several unwanted items left to me by the ex when he headed over to Australia. Probably thought he was being generous, but the most of the shit he left behind didn’t work. I’m still getting rid of it. I also washed and photographed a doll’s cot (I got for Christmas when I was four years old) and listed that on TradeMe.
I also chopped back overhanging branches on the driveway and cleaned it all up. The problem with gardening is you’re left with huge piles of garden waste.
I called it a day.
Sunday dawned cloudy and partly sunny again. I made a start on the large bed of grass and got out as much as I could. I decided to remove the large rosemary bush which had grass growing up through the middle of it. I felt rather sad to be killing it. The space left behind after removing it is huge – inspiring me to plant out the bed properly with manageable plants (she says). A woman bought the pots and came took them away. She was very happy.
I did some indoor decluttering. I now had space on my bookshelves to add books from a smaller shelf. I removed the shelf from my bedroom and put it in the sunroom ready to sell along with two boxes of books, etc. The carpet behind the bookshelf is not the best. What to do with it? Ideally it needs replacing but I can’t afford a houselot of carpet (all the rooms need it). The wood underneath looks good so I could strip it at least from that room (and risk being frozen in winter. I even dreamed about the dilemma.
And so to today. On Saturday a friend from Auckland phoned saying she was in town and wanted to visit me today. I remembered the last time she and her mother visited. They stayed for four hours and talked and talked and talked. I didn’t want my precious holiday wasted on a visit from them so I made an excuse saying I was invited out for lunch and offered, instead, to visit them after 4pm. In that way I could use the day doing what I wanted and still see her. It sounds terrible, but I had been looking forward to this weekend to get as much done as I could (and it still doesn’t feel like much).
Anyway, this morning I tried to finalise our itinerary for our trip to the South Island in February. I now had dates and just need to decide on accommodation. I had a look at a few options. Nothing’s cheap unless I go for backpackers or camping grounds. I will see what H says and then go from there.
I continued my attempt at decluttering. I had hoped to empty two plastic drawers but could not. They are full of sentimental stuff such as maps and brochures of places visited, school magazines, etc. The trouble with being a family archivist is that I can see the value in keeping ephemera… However, I did get rid of a bin full of paper (patterns and ideas for medieval clothing for feasts I would never attend, old bills and receipts, etc). I still have some boxes to go through, but I doubt I will be able to chuck anything and I have nowhere to put said boxes. There is very little cupboard space in this house.
It’s nearly time to get the car out of the garage (I actually cleared a space for it to fit!) and visit the friend. When clearing the garage I realised that 90% of it is junk, not even worth selling. Someone might want the extra tools though (again stuff dumped on me by the ex). But that’s another job that needs a skip bin (again).